My gf is drowning me in her expectations and I’m losing it.
(Rant I need to get this off my chest) My gf wants our relationship to basically be a full relationship movie. She tells me all the things she expect from me and cries about it. I can’t do everything and I’m just done with it.
Anytime she sees another couple doing something she yells at me and cries that we didn’t do that thing.
She expects me to read her mind and do whatever she’s thinking. If I don’t do or say the thing she wants me to say then she gets mad and cries.
She expects me to “watch” for the minor things and do something about it.
She expects me to basically get her chocolate and flowers everyday or she’ll cry.
She tells me things that im supposed to do when we’re living together in the future and if I answer or say anything wrong to her expectations then im in trouble.
Literally anything she sees on movies, tiktok, books, all the other couples she expects me to know those things and do them. Literally text book step by step or else she whines and cry about it.
It’s getting worse every time I see her and I’m so close to leaving. Funny thing is that I get random “red flags for relationships” tiktoks and having expectations is always on it. I think its a sign but I don’t know how to leave. This is my first relationship so idk what to do.
I don’t have expectations for her, i just want her to do her thing but she’s being too childish with all the crying and whining. Sometimes I feel like im babysitting an adult child
Am i just overreacting or is this completely ridiculous?