GF’S BOSS BRING HER GO ATAS RESTAURANT, DRIVE FAR TO GET HER ICE CREAM BUT SAYS IT’S “NORMAL”

My (27m) girlfriend(26F) has a weird relationship with her boss(40m).

It started a like 8-9 months ago, for context, her boss is a really nice guy all around. But he treats my girl differently, like she called in sick, so he drove a long way to get her favourite ice cream.

When he is in some work party, he texts her ” you are being missed here”. I was clear about it being very weird for me, and we talked. And she agreed with me because she found it weird as well.

On his birthday, both of them went out for a few drinks, but my gf told me that it was a office party and everybody was there, then she told me she reached home but i caught her in her lie.

We had a huge fight about it, she told me it was harmless. Things got well, we both forgot about it, i thought she enforced some boundaries.

A month ago it was my girl’s bday, she was in office all day as i was told. We celebrated at night, the next morning i was going for my usual run, and i found a recipt for a fine dining place.

She didnt tell me about it, but i faced her and she started crying telling me it was harmless and she knew i would flip if she told me.

I have been broken af about it, but she insists its just friendly and they have a dynamic. I want to believe her but i somehow have a gut feeling that something is wrong also. Kindly help.

Netizens’ comments

1. Your gf never found his behavior weird, she used that as an excuse to throw you off. She lied twice & you caught her both times. An Emotional affair leading its way to a physical or already has.
2. What I don’t understand is you’re painting this scenario, knowing full well what it looks like, and when people are going above and beyond telling you exactly what they think– you make excuses for her, you downplay it, you reinforce your trust for her.
   Only you can help yourself dude. We can try to tell the writing is on the wall, but it’s useless if you are trying your best not to open your eyes and see it yourself. Why make a post at all if you’re going to defend your girls actions while being upset by those actions? You got this girl on a pedestal, my dude… And if everything you’ve said is true she really shouldn’t be.