Now I won’t see them without an apology.
My girlfriend’s parents are fairly psychotic helicopter parents. They make my gf cry all the time and I credit them with creating all of her anxiety-related issues.
My girlfriend had an injury insurance settlement from when she was a kid and at the age of 21, she gained access to it.
The sum is hefty and her parents set it up so she will be paid monthly for 20 years. In my opinion, this was to maintain financial control and power over her for years into her mid-twenties. Upon gaining access, she decided to sell a portion of her settlement to for a lump sum in order to get out from under her parents.
Upon opening her mail (since her registered address is still her parents’ house) her mom found out about the case. She accused me of being behind it and that I was going to steal her money. She then went on to suggest that I was always suspicious and never should be trusted.
Let me back up first. Prior to this I was always pleasant and friendly with them because my gf didn’t want tension between them. They loved me and would invite me everywhere.
So, they have now started inviting me places again but I have refused to go. I want an apology first.
My GF wants to me to just give up on that and start accepting their invites again. Now, these people are immensely uncomfortable to be around to begin with. I could not imagine how uncomfortable I would feel spending time around them now without this being addressed.
Am I wrong for refusing to see them until I receive an apology of some kind?