I’m sorry if this is too weird of a question. I just figured this would be a safe place to ask a question like this.
I hear lots of guys at school and see posts online that make it sound like girls are only desirable if they’re tight down there. Some of my girl friends say similar stuff and will say “that girl is loose” as a pejorative.
I guess I’m asking cause I’m dealing with vaginismus (which means it will be too tight due to fear) and it can be really difficult to deal with at times. I finally found the courage to talk to my mom about it, saying that I can’t even use a tampon, or a menstrual disc which made periods so much more manageable.
I don’t really get periods anymore thanks to my IUD, but it’s still worrying you know?
Well my mom basically dismissed my concerns. She said it’s good that I’m that tight. That it’s gonna make pleasing my future husband much easier. And that S is gonna hurt the 1st few times anyway so I shouldn’t worry about it.
So now I’m just really confused and thinking maybe being this tight as a V is a good thing? Sorry for all the rambling I just thought maybe I should get your guys thoughts on this stuff.