Help, how to stop feelings of attraction for neighbour.
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I always thought of my neighbour as a quiet nerdy woman who is pleasant looking but I was not attracted to her. We have children about the same age.
Recently she had a makeover which really suits her well. She is glowing radiant and I have become quite attracted to her. As a result I have been fantasizing about her.
I am uncomfortable having such thoughts as I am married with children. I also feel a bit guilty to my husband.
Any advice on how to stop this attraction. Please do not ask me to act on it.
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Here are what netizens think:
- I’m here to read fictional stories these days.
- Explore your bisexuality. She gives you something your husband cannot. He must understand this.
- You can start by waving a small rainbow flag at her. If she turns around and screams at you and threatens to call the police which in all probability she would, you know it’s time to stop your deluded fantasy. Trust this helps.
- It’s normal for gay or bisexual tendencies to show up at late stage in a person’s life. But since you know your obligations to your family you can choose not to act on it. Do other things to keep your mental wellness.
- Then u need to do something about yourself to love yourself even more than u fascinating on her
- serious comment: who said fantasies are a bad thing? they are a common struggle to all humans. You know and understand the meaning of responsibility, and that’s enough. if buay tank use some tissues/towel or ask your partner to help.
- sisterhood or scissorhood? nvm disney supports it a lot nowadays, so just go for it. love thy neighbor they say!
- Just invite her to join in with your husband…. he wouldn’t mind i suppose
- Send your husband for makeover so you’ll be more attracted to him.
- Easy! Just do a makeover yourself and let the men around you “can’t take my eyes off” of you! This will stop it