I told a guy I had a crush on him and I deeply regret it. His reaction was utterly disgusting and disturbing
He said we’ll need to get to know each other before he decides if he likes me back or not and I agreed and asked what he would like to know about me.
Instead of asking any normal questions one would ask to get to know a fellow human being, he told me to send him “naughty pics” of myself in “bra and panties” from the “front and back view”.
When I told him I wasn’t comfortable with doing that he asked why. I told him I don’t have to justify myself and he was like “why are you giving me attitude” and “I can’t feel attracted to a girl if she doesn’t send me pics, I’m not attracted to faces and I don’t talk to people unless I’m attracted and the only way is those pics.
If you don’t send them then we can’t talk and I’ll delete you because then I won’t be attracted. Also note if you send them we won’t immediately be in a relationship. It can take a year for people to fall in love.”
I was utterly repulsed by this and called him out on his emotional blackmail and manipulative behavior. Then he started blaming me and saying I put myself in these situations by being obsessed with boys.
His hypocrisy is surreal as he was just asking me for pics but it’s my fault that he objectified and dehumanized me?? Wtf!!
I was baffled and utterly disgusted with this awful excuse of a human being. I cussed him out and we blocked each other. I feel so angry because I made myself vulnerable for someone so trashy. I regret ever talking to him. Just thinking about the way he acted makes me wanna puke all over him.