I am a girl who loves to have fun. I like to go out, meet new people, and have a great time. I also love to flirt and can be quite seductive.
The problem is that I get too desperate to hook up with guys. As soon as I see someone I’m attracted to, I’m all over him, trying to make it happen.
I only give them 5 mins to make a move on me
I don’t take no for an answer and I’m always on the lookout for the next guy.
As long as the guy is too slow in taking initiative within five minutes like if he does not put his arm around me or establish some sort of physical contact, I’ll move on to the other guy.
I felt like I was in control and that I could get any guy I wanted. But after a while, it just got tiring. I was always disappointed when the guy didn’t take the initiative or didn’t show any interest in me immediately
I started to realize that this wasn’t the way to get what I wanted. I was too desperate and it was scaring guys away.
They probably think that I have STDs or something because I’m so ‘easy’.
Decided to change my game plan
I decided to make some changes. I started to be more patient and to take things slower.
Instead of trying to hook up with a guy right away, I tried to get to know him first. I also started to look for guys who were more interested in me and were willing to take the initiative.
I also realized that changing my target every five minutes was too short as most guys will just beat about the bush and are more ‘humji’.
I was too eager and it showed.
So now, I’m more selective about the guys I go after. I make sure that I get to know them first and that they’re interested in me before I make any moves. I’m also more patient and I give the guy more time to take the initiative.
This eventually worked well for me, as doing so make me able to be able to ‘hook up’ with more guys.