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GIRL DOESN’T KNOW HOW TO TELL HER BF THAT HE IS “VERY BAD IN BED”

How to politely tell my (f20) boyfriend (m25) he is terrible in bed

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My boyfriend and I have been together for a year now. In most aspects is the best relationship of my life. He’s the nicest guy, he treats me amazingly, he’s handsome, hard-working and just the total package.

He does however fail in bed. Without being too gross, it’s not a size issue but it’s just bad. He’s not a very generous lover. I don’t hold this against him,

I love him, I just want to maybe like subtly hint at my dissatisfaction. Is there a smart way to do this?

I know some men take criticisms of their ability very personally and the last thing I want to do is hurt his feelings or come off as rude or abrasive.

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I need a nice way to discuss this, any tips would be lovely

Netizen’s comments

Don’t be subtle – he’ll miss it, most likely. Sit him down and talk to him like an adult.

My ex- always used to say “If you can’t talk about it, you probably shouldn’t be doing it”. This is a significant part of your relationship, and may point to other red flags in the relationship, like not considering your needs/wants/preferences in other life decisions.

Set the boundary now, or you’re going to resent him more and more as time goes by.

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