I ate a guy’s lollipop over the weekend not knowing he was married and his wife is threatening me now.
Context
I met a guy while with some friends at a bar. We all went to another place and sparing the details I ate his lollipop. We exchanged phone numbers. This was Friday.
Sunday he texted me, telling me he couldn’t believe I made him release twice and he’d love to get together again. I told him I’m glad he enjoyed it, that I had a lot of fun too, and we’d have to see about getting together again.
Last night, I got a very angry text from a strange number and it was his wife. She told me if I’m going to be a ‘chicken’ and suck random guys ‘kkj’ then I should have the courtesy to make sure that they’re not married.
The thing is – I did talk to him about this. We discussed how I just got out of a long marriage and am divorced and he told me he never got married.
I told her I did ask him, and he wasn’t wearing a ring, and she just kept calling me a ‘chicken’ and I turned off my notifications and went to bed.
This morning, I woke up to 20 messages. They were all from the wife and the contents of the message was just calling me a ‘chicken’ and a homewrecker, how they have kids and I’ve just ruined their poor babies lives.
As far as I’m concerned I did nothing wrong, I went out to a bar, I asked him and he lied to me. Should I call the police?
I don’t think she has any way of knowing where I live, she just has my phone number. I don’t think I ever told him where I work, but I’m not positive. I also don’t have Facebook or anything.
I haven’t replied. I’m considering telling her once again that I did ask him, he’s the one you need to be mad at, and that I’m blocking her number and I’ll tell the police if she contacts me again, but I’m not really sure what to do.