yesterday my dad went through my phone and now im uncomfortable around him
yesterday my dad decided to take it upon himself to go through my phone. it wasnt that big of a deal, as i have nothing to hide from him, but i did ask him to not go through my photos.
he and i both know that i have some pictures that i would much rather him not see, but he did go through them. multiple times.
he went through my snap memories at least three times, slowing down his scrolling when he knew that “naughty” photos would visible.
he swiped to “my eyes only” and tried to figure out the password, knowing exactly what was in there as well.
now, he already knows that “active” with other guys, considering i am legally an adult. we even talk about intimacy sometimes, with little to no detail.
afterwards, though, he asked me in detail about my kinks and i told him that i wasnt comfortable discussing that topic with him.
i said that 3 times, and each time, he continued to talk about it. i didnt say anything. he told me about his worst kink, which i did NOT ask for at all.
he said it was a “sleeping mommy” kink. the worst part about that is the fact that his wife, my stepmom, was sleeping on him at the time.
he told me that directly after asking me if i wanted to squeeze her chest. i said no. he insisted once before apologizing.
it was then that i realized he was trying to use me to fuel one of his kinks. i no longer feel comfortable with or around him but i dont have the means to move out yet. i feel sick to my stomach now. i hate him.
side note: i changed my password on my phone and will not be giving it to him if he asks.