I hurt my own feelings by snooping and finding graphic Grindr chats on my “straight” boyfriends phone
He’s still at work and will be there for 6 more hours so I can’t even confront him. I’m just so hurt I don’t even know how to react.
We’ve been dating for 6 years, have a son together, and moved away from our family to start a life together…and it’s all for nothing.
I’m just so mad that he would do this to me. He knows that I’m bi and super open and understanding. If he thought he was bi he could have said something.
We could have carefully calculated a way to split up without hurting our home or our son so he could be happy dating men but he had to be selfish and ruin my life in the process because he wanted to go explore this double life behind my back.
Most of the messages stopped after an exchange of Snapchat usernames and I couldn’t see the deleted chats on Snapchat but there was one that had a lot of graphic messages with explicit photos exchanged
and one of the guys I saw on there was someone I recognized that my boyfriend had introduced as a new friend and he went over to watch movies a few nights.
I now have a feeling he’s slept with some of these men. I don’t even know what to do I’m just so angry and hurt.