A netizen shared how he boyfriend has been lying to her about being a virgin for a year and she just found out about it.
Here is the story:
“my boyfriend and i have been dating for over a year now, and ever since before we started dating he’s told me that he’s a virgin and that i’d be his first, and the thought made me happy since i had never even kissed a guy before so i guess i felt like at least he’s a tiny bit inexperienced so i won’t feel bad about me being inexperienced.
then a few days ago i was asking about if he’s done what we do (explicit texting and stuff like that) with girls before me, and he said that he hasn’t cause he just did things in person with them. i wasn’t surprised by this, i’ve already known about him doing stuff with a past girlfriend, but when i asked more about it i found out that he’s been lying about being a virgin.
i wanted to know more about it but he said he felt uncomfortable about it so i dropped it and went to bed. but all night i was thinking about it. i wasn’t upset that i wasn’t going to be his first, i was just upset that he’s been lying about it since i met him.
like why would you lie about that? i’ve been thinking that maybe he didn’t tell me cause he felt bad that i was super inexperienced and wanted me to feel better about it, but then that thought led to does he pity me for not having done anything?
idk if i should be upset about this cause i feel a bit upset but he said he doesn’t want to talk about it again cause he said it’s weird to talk about past girlfriends, which i understand. i just don’t get why he’d lie, cause now im wondering what else he’s lying about in our relationship.”