Hi, My (F20) boyfriend (M20) keeps calling me fat, fatty, piggy en another thing like that. I’ve told him serveral times I don’t like that he calls me like that.
Even tho I am not really fat, yes I have some fat, but not like obese and I’m no model either. But just healthy you know?
He has like this perfect 6 pack body, doesn’t matter what or how much he eats. He just doest get fat at all. And that is annoying for me.
What can I do to make him stop? It’s just not fun anymore and he keeps telling me it’s just a joke. But it’s making me really doubt myself.
And yes, I’ve told him that.
Edit:I realise now that he is bullying me and I should no longer accept his behavior. We have been together for 2 years and I love him for a lot of things, I will bring it to the table one more time next week after his finals. We all know what I should do if he denies and keeps going. And I will. Thanks for all the love and support
Here is what netizens think:
- I’m sure he does have a lot of good qualities, but this one is not one of them and it legit – hurts you.
He needs to wake up and smell the coffee and be nice to others.
- You don’t make him stop. You leave him and look for someone who doesn’t get off on degrading you and then is so cowardly that he hides behind the ‘just joking’ excuse.
- Look. You asked him to stop doing something that hurts your feelings and he won’t. He’s a grade A douche and he’s treating you badly.This is a red flag, especially when he knows it hurts your feelings and he’s still belittling you.
If one of your friends was in the same situation what would you tell them? You deserve happiness and to be with someone who loves you unconditionally.
Leave the dude to his mirror, is his name Narcissus?