My (19M) Girlfriend (19F) of 7 months asks me to do a bunch of favors everyday and I’m getting sick of it
Me and my girlfriend have been together for 7 months, in the beginning she would ask me to do little things for her, get her a water, heat up her food, yknow small things like that. She would thank me and was grateful.
I would kind of get annoyed after about 2 months of doing that because she would just keep asking me for stupid shit (get me clothes, go pick me up food, go and find my hair straightener, find the scissors, do this do that.)
And like, it started to wear on me. Fast forward to now, we have had the same conversation a few times, she asks me why I won’t be in the same room as her or how I’m distant and I tell her it’s because she keeps asking me to do shit and it’s tiring, especially when she isn’t grateful anymore.
and everytime I say no to a favor (in a nice and respectful way) she acts super immature saying things like “Wow you changed and just put on an act in the beginning” “You used to want to do those things now it’s just an inconvenience”.
But it’s like, yeah. It is an inconvenience. I was curious so I asked her a favor or two a week to see how she would react and she would always tell me to do it myself.
Then when we talk about it I’ll bring this up and she says “It’s because you always ask me when I’m in the middle of something”
When she asks me for a favor when I’m in the middle of something I usually say “I can’t right now, you can do it or just wait a few minutes until I finish up with this”
Even a few weeks ago, her back hurt but I didn’t know it. She asked me to get her clothes and I said “Can you just please do it yourself I don’t really feel like it”.
She immediately changes her mood to sulking and all sad. I ask her if she’s going to get the clothes, and she says “No I’m getting my dad to do it”.
Now in my head I immediately thought “Wait. So you’re going to inconvenience your dad?? Are you kidding me?”
I said to her “Dude, just tell me what clothes you want why are you going to inconvenience your dad in the middle of him working”.
She acted all sulky and was like “No I don’t want you to get them”. I eventually just went and got the clothes so her dad wouldn’t have to. This is just one example of it and it’s annoying. Any help would be appreciated