”I’ll leave her for you”
It’s not the first time someone who is in a seemingly happy relationship has told me this and it’s not the first time I’ve had the vibe that a guy in a relationship was trying to pursue me.
Most of the time it’s long time friendships, classmates or someone who has been following me on social media for a while.
But I know it’s not just men who do this, I know countless of women who knew their current partners while being with their ex. It’s technically not cheating but it’s been done to me and it hurts so bad.
The only other person I’ve ever loved, left me for someone else. I was completely heart broken and it didn’t take him long to regret his decision.
He apologized and messaged me for 2 months until I gave in, just for him to cheat on me. I don’t believe people who leave their current partner for someone else are good partners in general, just very opportunistic people.
There’s no quicker way to lose my friendship than to tell me that you’ll leave someone for me. I’ve never wanted you, never showed you the slightest romantic or nterest and you are willing to just leave someone that loves you?
Screw you, do better. Leave her before and then pursue someone new.