I(28F) hooked with a guy(29M) a few days ago. It was great, we had plenty of making out, riding, communicating. All the good stuff
What I couldn’t understand was while we were doing it, he kept bear-hugging me until I squeaked (for lack of better words)
I didn’t mind but I don’t understand why? I’m about 1.5m and he’s around 1.8m, so I thought maybe it’s to help make up for the height difference?? Or is it easier to grip someone that way?
Is that considered a turn on for some people or am I just over thinking this?? Now that I think about it, during our make-out sessions, he would squeeze the life out of me
He also keeps squeezing my b–bs until they hurt, some insight would be helpful because I’m very confused.. thank you!
Netizens’ comments
- Sometimes i do it too. Many women get aroused by physical strength, so “squeeze” them a little it’s a turn on. Probably he was trying to arouse you
- Maybe he thought they were stress balls
- I had a girlfriend many, many years ago who felt calm and safe when I hugged her hard. Maybe that’s it? He’s been told that this is expected of him sometime in the past?