I(28F) hooked with a guy(29M) a few days ago. It was great, we had plenty of making out, riding, communicating. All the good stuff
What I couldn’t understand was while we were doing it, he kept bear-hugging me until I squeaked (for lack of better words)
I didn’t mind but I don’t understand why? I’m about 1.5m and he’s around 1.8m, so I thought maybe it’s to help make up for the height difference?? Or is it easier to grip someone that way?
Is that considered a turn on for some people or am I just over thinking this?? Now that I think about it, during our make-out sessions, he would squeeze the life out of me
He also keeps squeezing my b–bs until they hurt, some insight would be helpful because I’m very confused.. thank you!
- Sometimes i do it too. Many women get aroused by physical strength, so “squeeze” them a little it’s a turn on. Probably he was trying to arouse you
- Maybe he thought they were stress balls
- I had a girlfriend many, many years ago who felt calm and safe when I hugged her hard. Maybe that’s it? He’s been told that this is expected of him sometime in the past?