Should I continue or not?
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I was working on a project with a group of colleagues. After some times, I realised that I was drawn to one of them.
It is really comfortable working with him. We also talk quite often on personal stuffs offline.
On one occasion (I can’t rem the context), I told him that I am not interested in him. But this is to avoid scaring him.
Now, I realised that I am always the one who initiated any conversation. His reply is often short. But he will share his personal matters with me at times. It seem to me that he see me as a friend.
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It has been going on for a while. It is not moving forward. Overall, I think he is not interested.
Should I continue trying out? If yes, what should I do?
Netizens’ Comments
- I’m a female and I can’t understand what some females are up to, when they really want a YES but they say NO. The guy you are interested in is probably getting mixed signals from you. Even if he was mildly interested, he would be confused and is holding back.
- Kiss him and you will know the answer immediately.
- So you told him you weren’t interested when you were and now he’s avoiding you but you want his attention. What exactly is it that you want??
- Ask him out for a one-to-one dinner if he’s still single. If he accepts, you can try to clarify over dinner. If he rejects, you have your answer.