My (F19) new bf (M23) has an STD
I (F19) have been dating this guy (M23) for 4 months, we recently made it official. I lost my virginity to him a month ago and decided to go on birth control.
Last night he had trouble getting hard with a condom on and asked if he could try it without and promised to pull out.
I agreed because I wanted to make sure he finished too. He didnt pull out in time and was really freaked out about it.
He was really sweet and bought me a plan b just incase because the birth control is new.
Today I got a text from him saying that I might want to get tested just in case because he was given an STD by his ex.
Ive been doing research and im freaking out and asked him why he didn’t bring it up.
He said there’s a huge stigma around it and he was afraid I would’ve ghosted him if he told me. I probably would’ve earlier on in the relationship but I really have feelings for this guy now and don’t know what to do.
I can’t talk to anybody else about this because my family is really religious and doesn’t even know I’m dating.
Update: He’s driving me to urgent care because I don’t have a car and he’s taking 100% responsibility for any medical cost.
Thank you guys so much for your responses!! I feel so stupid I’m gonna end it tn. I appreciate all of you so much this has been so helpful, thank you thank you thank you