Getting ghosted…for still having my v-card?
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Me and a guy can be talking for MONTHS and the moment they figure out I’m still fresh they just disappear. Why does it even matter? It’s like they care more about it than I do…it’s honestly getting really ridiculous.
We were talking for months and everything seemed really well, he would text me every day and we were really getting to know each other and I really liked him.
But then we started talking about our body count and i told him I had none, the conversation died down and eventually he stopped texting me and just kinda disappeared.
If anyone could weigh in with their perspective, that’d be great because I just do not get it.
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Netizens’ comments
- Many reasons. They might just not want to wait for you. It’s really that simple. It could be more complicated like they feel pressured and scared.
They know themselves and if they can’t handle it. It’s a good thing that they remove themselves. They don’t want to take advantage of you.
They might think you want commitment and they can’t give you that. Idk them you should ask their perspective. - Are you getting ghosted for still having your v-card or for not wanting to lose it? I bet that could be the problem. You are “talking” to a guy for months? Which means not even seeing them just talking to them?
They probably realize it’s been months and you are still just talking, it could take forever before you sleep with them.
Maybe they just don’t want to invest that much time. Sure some people might not mind, but lots of people would want to move more quickly towards establishing a relationship than months and months of talking. - How old are you? That can make a difference. The younger you are, the more people think it is a big deal.
What do you tell them about it and what are your intentions around it? - Think about it in a new perspective. If they get scared off it kind of seems like you dodged a bullet. That’s not a type of person you want to be with