Throwaway for obvious reasons. I’m posting this because the level of entitlement is actually insane and someone’s family is literally being treated like a GrabFood voucher.
I was at a popular bar in Tanjong Pagar last night and ended up sitting next to this group of girls in their mid-20s. One of them (let’s call her ‘V’) was loudly detailing her “strategy” for how she’s been funding her lifestyle for the past few months.
The Tea:
- The Target: She is actively dating a guy in his late 40s. She knows he’s married with two kids (saw the photos on his phone, knows the wife’s name).
- The Intent: She isn’t in it for “love” or even a long-term relationship. She literally called him her “ATM with a pulse.”
- The “Benefits”: She boasted about how she hasn’t paid for a single high-end meal or a cocktail in months. We’re talking omakase sessions, MBS staycations, and bottles of expensive gin/whiskey every weekend.
- The Audacity: The worst part? She was laughing about how she makes him feel “young and understood” so he’ll keep the taps flowing. She even joked that the wife probably thinks he’s “OT-ing” or at “client dinners” while he’s actually buying V $300 bottles of wine.
Why I’m posting this:
Singapore is small. If you’re a mid-20s girl doing this, thinking it’s a “victimless crime” because you’re just getting “freebies”—you’re destroying a household. And to the “Uncle” out there spending your kids’ tuition money on someone who literally mocks you the moment you leave the table: Wake up.
She was bragging about how she’s “gaming the system,” but honestly? It’s just cheap. You’re trading your integrity for some fermented grape juice and a Wagyu bowl.
TL;DR: Girl in her 20s is purposely targeting a married man for free food/alcohol in the CBD area, fully aware of his family, and laughs about it behind his back. Disgusting behavior.