I think I made the right decision to move on from my ex. He’s much older than me and we’ve together for a few years. At first I thought he’s a nice guy but now i am really understanding why he’s been single for all these years.
The fact that I put up with his behaviour for so long , it is an amazement.
He thinks that accompanying me to the doctor or fetching me from appointments (not nails / lashes) is me having the princess syndrome because his idea is me waiting for him at the pick up point early and when he drives up, I hop in and we go. He said that girls who want guys to wait for them is spoiled and just want to be pampered. But isn’t it normal that we wait for each other ?
To add on, he cannot stand it when people are more successful than him monetarily wise. He feels that parents should only give their kids X amount if parents make X+n , doing it more is just spoiling them. But logic, which parent wouldn’t want to give their best to their child ?? He also says that he always tries his best to lessen people’s money and supports the inheritance tax because he feels people should not be too rich. So the logic is when he cannot provide, he blames other people’s act of being able to provide spoiling/pampering (in a negative way).
Lastly, the bombshell. This is kind of absurd to me but he feels very scared that his child may be “wrongly taught” other religion or other religions snatch his child to them. Etc if he is of Y religion he should immediately bring his child up with Y religion or else other religions might “brainwash” his child to be their religion instead. When I asked him what is wrong with other religions ? He said it’s just wrong because he is brought up in a way where he has the duty to bring his child to his religion.
I mean there’s more but need I say more? The above 3 got me questioning my whole time wasted.