Admin pls assist me to post this! Seeking genuine advice.
My bf and I have been tgt for 2 years. He is currently a regular in the army and he frequently goes overseas for 1-2 mths for operations.
Last year end, I discovered his insta account password and logged in into it.
Everyday, I would enter to see the accounts he has searched, his DMs on his account and also view his friends’ profile.
Sometimes, I see that he searched for accounts of girls (influencers) on his insta, usually those girls who are wearing very revealing.
I do feel a bit uncomfortable about this, but understand that guys like to see these stuff.
Also, he is treating me well, always updating me on his whereabouts and making time to text me although he is overseas.
Recently, he changed his password and I have been logged out of his account and cannot enter it again.
I am now feeling insecure, because I cannot track his activities on insta while he is currently overseas on another operation.
I have crazy thoughts that what if he hooks up with other girls while he is overseas, text other girls online etc.
I feel irritated with myself for being insecure just because I cannot trace his social media activity now. Seeking for help thanks ????
- This is sick.
Nothing wrong with your bf.
It’s you. Get a life. There must be some mystery in the relationship. Don’t ever try to know every minor details of him, coz someday that’ll only make you bored of him. Don’t end it before the ends.
- You wouldn’t have any healthy relationship with anyone when you have trust issue
- See a therapist and seek professional help