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GIRL SAYS HER RELATIONSHIP IS ROCK SOLID BUT THINKS OF OTHER MEN

I’ve been with my boyfriend for a year+ and on-going.

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We have a solid relationship and everything is good. But recently I met a mutual friend of ours and couldn’t stop thinking about him… (not in a romantically way but interested to find out more about this dude and talk to him).

I am still in love with my boyfriend but I don’t know why do i think that way about this friend…

Here are what netizens think:

  • One year plus with your bf should be still in honeymoon stage. If you’re already thinking of wanting to know another guy its not a solid relationship. You say it’s not a romantic feeling but you want to know more about the guy (what for?) and claim you still love your bf. Maybe you are in denial of your own thoughts and feelings. What if I tell you the best person to answer this question is your current bf. Would you be willing to ask him? If you have every intention to hide your thoughts from him, you know the answer as clear as day.
  • Like what I’ve say, if you are attached , please keep a distance from the opposite sex. If you can’t, it will be better not to be in a relationship.
  • How would you feel if you friend is thinking about another girl? You already have signs of straying. Your mouth said still love him but your heart n mind already with someone else
  • Cos your mind very free. Go and unlock Ramattra. You won’t think about him anymore then.
  • Love is making a conscious choice to continue choosing your partner everytime a temptation arises in your world (external and internal). It requires us to let the thoughts and associated emotions (for the other person) go (by itself) by not clinging onto them.
  • If you find yourself being overwhelmed by the thoughts and emotions for the other person, then you may just want to reevaluate and reaffirm your love.
  • If you find yourself after the evaluation, unable to reaffirm your love for your partner and still being swarmed by your thoughts and emotions for the other person, then you have to make a choice.
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