Not a gold digger
People see me as this atas, high maintenance, hard to please. However, i am not.
Yes, i do love my luxury items and i spend MY MONEY on expensive clothes, bags and jewellery, eat out at nice restaurants and cafe. Lover of finer things in life.
I do not request or expect my other half for anything except for his time.
I love myself some expensive luxury bags, but i will be over the moon even with a simple $10 bag because he bought it, he chose it and his effort to buy for me. No need fine dining, i am happy even with hawker food, as he took the effort to bring me to hawker and researched which hawker is nice as oppose to expensive food = nice food. There is no need for fancy sports car as long as there is public transport to the place.
Its not about the luxury in life but it is about spending time with the person, growing with the person.
Here are what netizens think:
- The moment you need validation from strangers when people who know you already deemed you as such, you are what you are. Just accept it and hope the person you love accept you for who you are.
- You seem like you are trying too hard to convince yourself. Accept who you are. You are going very hard against your natural self. If you are materialistic, then be comfortable with it, no need to fear judgement from people or be concerned with how other people think. Be who you are, the right people will come to you. Why force yourself to accept a $10 bag or eat hawker food, when deep down you don’t like it? And justify with a wall of words here. Self-acceptance will put your psyche at ease and is the first step to happiness.
- Interesting… Doesn’t sound like you’re comfortable with this lifestyle. Because if you are comfortable, you wouldn’t have any need to broadcast this..