I used to be the kind of girl who felt like I needed to have a guy in my life to make me feel validated.
I was always trying to prove something to the world, and I thought that having a guy around would show others that I was worth something.
But as I’ve grown older, I’ve realized that going out alone can be just as fulfilling, if not more so, than going out with a random guy.
It all started when I went out with a friend to a club one night. We were both single and looking to have a good time, but I quickly noticed that I was getting a lot of attention from guys.
They were buying us drinks and trying to get us to come home with them, but I didn’t feel comfortable with any of them. I knew that I didn’t really want to go home with any of them, so I decided to just go home alone.
That experience made me realize that I don’t need to be with a guy in order to feel valued and have a good time. I can still have a great night out even if I’m not surrounded by men. I started going out alone more often, and I found that I actually enjoyed it a lot more than when I was with someone. I was able to do what I wanted, when I wanted, without worrying about anyone else’s opinion or agenda.
Now, I’m not saying that I’m never going to go out with a guy again. I’m just saying that I’d rather go out alone than get stuck with some random guy who has no interest in getting to know me. Going out alone has made me realize that I don’t need a man to feel complete and that I can have just as much fun and satisfaction doing things on my own.
Plus, going out alone gives me a chance to meet new people and make new connections that I wouldn’t have made if I was stuck with a guy. I’ve met some amazing people and made some great friends who I wouldn’t have met if I was always surrounded by the same group of guys.
Overall, I’m thankful that I’ve realized that I don’t need to have a man in my life to feel validated. Going out alone has given me the freedom to explore and discover things about myself that I wouldn’t have known if I was always with someone else. I’m happier and more confident in myself than ever before, and I’m glad that I made the decision to go out alone instead of getting stuck with some random guy.