A netizen shared how he was dumped by his girlfriend, who then went sleeping around after 2 weeks. Then 5 months later, she asked him for a second chance.
Here is the story:
Guys and girs, so I was dumped 5 months ago. Then during this period of no contact I’m just reflecting on what I did wrong, what went wrong in our relationship. I really saw her quality to be the possible marry-able type.
The thing is, after 2 weeks of breakup, she started dating and sleeping with another possible rebound.
Now she texted me 5 months later saying she regretted her decision and ask me to give us another chance.
Do i have feelings for her? Definitely. Do I see a future with her? Definitely. But do I feel she’s dirty? Kind of. It’s hard to think how someone can go into another relationship after a breakup so quickly like our connection was nothing.
What should I do? Walk away? Take her back?
Netizens comments
- Nope. She didn’t treasure you when you are around. Also you not recycling bin.
- Dodged a bullet! Count yourself lucky you’re no longer with this person.
- The dynamics in a breakup between an initiator and the ‘recipient’ are vastly different. The initiator has had plenty of time to come to terms with the split, whereas the ‘recipient’ does not.
It may not be the case that she took your connection lightly, but rather that she had a significant head start in getting over it. The fact that she’s coming back to you doesn’t support the notion that she treats your connection as nothing.
Technically, she did nothing wrong in that she hooked up with someone else only after breaking up with you. Is sleeping with her boyfriend wrong? Should it attract condemnation?
People change, people grow. Whether or not you are willing to give her a second chance is really up to you. If you’re able to get over the fact that she had someone else in between, you’re likely to get a girlfriend who is more mature and cherishes the relationship way more than before.
Editor’s note: Yeap, walk away. In fact, run away and don’t look back.