Guy humilates me for being “Too wet and nasty”?
22 f. This morning I had a guy over after chatting with him for a week on Tinder. i don’t know, i knew something was off in the first 10 mins of the session because he would look down and make these facial expressions of disgust…
it made me feel so insecure and off ….he went soft on me throughout the session, and we just called it quits.
I asked him what was wrong, and he just replies “I thought another dude finished inside you with the amount of slime you have coming there, you gotta tone that down it’s a turnoff for most guys”
I was struggling to make sense of what he said then and so confused that i just responded ” a real man would be elated if you’re causing that”
He responds “Not to me its gross”
I have never had an encounter like this…. and I can’t control how i feel or what my body decides to do when im excited and getting caught in the moment, sometimes i wish i do Cuz i get a little embarrassed sometimes…
Do you think it was something else or code for something else that he just doesn’t wanna say? Can anyone make sense of this and the issue? is this really a turn off for some guys????
Edit: I’m very hygienic, i spend hours in the bathroom getting ready to start my day every morning.
Netizens’ comments
- So this guy was offended by your natural lubrication? That tells me he’s dead in the bedroom and is used to dry poo-say
- He is immature and selfish and does not deserve the attention you gave him or the time you shared with him; I am sorry that happened. Never compromise your standards to be with with anyone
- I’m thinking he really had no experience. One day he’ll look back and feel humiliated that he ever treated you like this…once he has enough experience to see reality.
- Even worse is that he EVER thought it was okay to speak like that to someone, never mind when you are in a vulnerable position of mid-act. His attitude is the only “nasty” thing that happened here.
- He’s inexperienced and judgmental. Just avoid him because I can tell you straight up the majority of us men crave this! And why? It’s a sign you’re obviously turned on by us and what we’re doing, plus your body has the ability to produce ample amounts of natural lube easily, which some women have issues doing.