I’m naturally slim/have a flat stomach etc even though I don’t really work out or eat healthily.
I feel like the first thing that men like to comment on when I go on dates or just post a picture online is how I have the ‘perfect petite body’ etc, and it’s honestly pretty creepy.
I feel like the only reason these men are going out with me is because of my body and not really because we have shared interests and I leave the date early because we have nothing to talk about.
What’s also creepy is that a lot of men say that I have a nice ‘teen body’ and I’m like 22, it just disgusts me how a lot of men seem to be so fixated on my body like I have absolutely nothing to offer.
I even had a conversation with a guy saying that what if I gained a bit of weight because of a health condition, or got pregnant, or you know just naturally put on weight because I aged, and he kept telling me that ‘he would help me lose weight and it seems like he’s so fixated on my weight that nothing else really matters.
I just want to take a break from dating or meeting people because I’m just realizing that a majority of men are so sick and obsessed with women maintaining a perfect body shape which is disgusting and horrible.
Here are what netizens think:
People can say what they want and see what they want, suck it up.
Lan lan suck thumb, this is how the world works. Be glad that you naturally have a good physique.
People fat kpkb, u slim also kpkb. Maybe you can just stay at home don’t come out the best.