My boyfriend absolutely disgusts me with the way he lives. His flat is appalling, rubbish and dirty clothes everywhere and it think I need to break up with him over it.
I’ve been going out with with my boyfriend for about 10 months or so and so far everything had been perfect, he’s kind, handsome and just the best.
He dresses well and doesn’t smell bad so I would never have guessed the state of his flat. when we FaceTime or call he is usually on his bed or at his desk and doesn’t normally turn his camera on because he’s self conscious about the way he looks which I was fine with.
I have my own flat which is where we usually hang out with friends and sometimes he sleeps over But I’ve never been to his, he says it’s because he’s getting “plumbing” done which will take a few months so his flat is messy because of it.
Okay, that’s okay I’ll just come over when it’s done? That was two months ago he said this and I asked him again if I could come over because I was getting suspicious why he wouldn’t let me come to his place.
I told him it was weird he would never let me see his house but he finally agreed yesterday So I went over today. He said beforehand he’d have to clean up a bit so I offered to just come and help but he refused.
so I go over to his address at maybe two and when I walk in I’m shocked man. It’s disgusting. His hallway was alright but the living room and kitchen had beer cans, energy drink cans, candy wrappers, empty plates, bowls all over the table and in the sink, I didn’t see his bathroom or bedroom but I don’t even want to imagine what it was like in there if this was the look of his living room….
It smelled of sweat and things I don’t even want to imagine. He asked if I wanted to watch a film and I decided to stick it out instead of just leaving but his couch had stains on it and It was crusty af I wanted to vomit.
30 minutes later I couldn’t take it so I faked an excuse and got out of there. The worst part is he didn’t even seem to care? Like this is perfectly fine??
i just got back to my place and I haven’t messaged him since and I seriously think I’m going to break up with him over it because whatever you’re imagining it was 10 times worse.
its Amazes me how you would actually never guess he lived like that.