Are there actually people who don’t cheat?
Like seriously, anybody? I have never cheated or been cheated on (that I am aware of) but my timelines everywhere are flooded with cheating, cheating, cheating….
Makes me want to stay single forever 🤔
I ponder how likely is it that someone who has been cheated on multiple times will do it to someone else?
Edited to add: I now realize I need some different forums in my life. But I needed this reassurance.
I watched my “dad” openly cheat on my mom for 13 years and watched how it destroyed her and how weak of a person she was.
I just don’t want to bring the trauma and insecurities into my next relationship but it can be hard when it appears that many people cheat and disregard the simple act of just breaking up with someone.
- There are plenty of people who don’t cheat. But people don’t tend to talk about that a lot so it makes sense that you’d feel like you hear about cheating more often.
- I’ve been married for 16 years no cheating. We started dating when I was 15 (mid 40’s now) for just over 5 years. We broke up for a few then found each other again and married after another year of dating and about a year engagement. Never cheated.
- I’ve never cheated or been cheated on, and I don’t know anyone who has cheated or been cheated on. Definitely depends on your circles I think.
- Yes I would never cheat. Occasionally I have nightmares of cheating on my boyfriend and I wake up terrified. I love him more than anyone, I could never do anything to harm him. Plus I’m so lucky anyone else but him would be a downgrade.