I went out on a date with someone supposedly the same age as me, but they looked MUCH older..
So this was yesterday. I’m 18F and he was 18M. when I saw his photos, I already did think he looked so much older, but I thought that was just the camera and he would look younger in person.
no, he didn’t. he looked like he was 30. I asked him on the date if he really is 18, and he told me his beard and long hair just makes him look older.
the date went well, he was a nice person. But I couldn’t help thinking if he really was 18.
honestly I want to ask him for a photo of his ID where he covers everything except his birth date, but I’m scared that’d be too mean.
update: ok uhm so I asked him for it. he kept questioning why and told me I was weird for pushing it. he told me he wouldn’t lie and he doesnt need to prove anything. So guess who I blocked.
- I used to get served in most bars when I was 16/17. 🤷🏻♂️ ask him for I.D. He will see the funny side of it if he’s truly 18.
- Hello there. Let me just say to you that there is nothing wrong with you asking for ID , the fact is you can be kind and respectful when doing so but this will show him that you are a Confident young lady and have self respect.
I’m afraid that if you don’t do this for yourself at this early stage in your dealings with the opposite gender you may just become easy prey both of your insecurities and other who are out to take advantage of people like you. Please take care of yourself and like anyone else has already said “ Trust your Gut “ ✌️