I am a girl who worries about her future and the future of my relationship. I’m in a relationship with a man who earns only $50 a day, and he is content with that.
Can’t help but think that he has no ambition, and I don’t feel secure bring with him
I can’t help but feel that he has no drive in life and there is no security being with him.
I know that money isn’t everything, but it is a big part of our lives and it is necessary for a secure future. He has no ambition to earn more and I feel like he is stuck in a rut. I can’t help but worry about what will happen when we have kids. If he is already content with earning such a low salary, that’s likely all he will ever earn.
I love my boyfriend, but I worry that our relationship won’t survive in the long run if he doesn’t make an effort to earn more. I’m not asking him to become a millionaire, but I want him to at least have the ambition and drive to try and make more money.
I want to help him in any way I can, but he won’t let me. He insists that he is content with his salary, but I can’t help but feel that he is just settling. I want him to have more opportunities in life, and he will only have those opportunities if he pursues them.
I also worry that his lack of ambition will lead to a lack of respect from others. People who earn more money are often respected more, and I don’t want him to be looked down upon because of his low salary. I want him to be respected for his hard work and achievements, not for the amount of money he earns.
Afraid that our future will be full of suffering
I know that money isn’t everything, but it is a big part of our lives and it is necessary for a secure future. I want my boyfriend to have the ambition to earn more and have opportunities, and I’m afraid that won’t happen if he doesn’t do something about it.
I’m trying to be understanding and supportive, but it is hard when I feel like he is settling and not taking the initiative. I want the best for him and for us, and I worry that our future is uncertain because of his attitude towards money.
I just want him to have more ambition and drive, so that he can have a better future.