A woman shared how she is paranoid and worried because he boyfriend is always initiating to meet his female friend one on one.
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BF always initiates to meet his female friend 1 on 1, is this normal?
My bf has a close female friend. They’re friends years before I got together with him. He seems kinda protective over this relationship and tend to divulge very few details to me about her and their meetups.
Though they meet once every 3 months or so, bf will make an effort to rush over to meet her at their dinner place even though he usually has OT, then send her home after a 3-4 hrs dinner at a mid/high end restaurant.
While her house is somewhat along the way, he had to take the further route home, pay for ERP and drive in/upslope to the estate, spending additional 15-20 min on his journey which is rather inconvenient.
I came across his chat messages recently and found that he is always the one initiating to meet the female friend, offering to send/pick her home, asking how is her work going, celebrating her bday etc and she had never initiated once and never celebrated his bday.
She also frequently left his messages on double tick and he had to double/triple text her to ask her out for a meal again.
I don’t think the female friend has any intentions to stay near my bf given her lack of enthusiasm and often no replies in the text conversation but I’m feeing wary as to why my bf is willing to put in so much effort in meeting this friend of his.
He also shares with her about my salary, work and rants i shared with him but on the other hand I knew nothing about her.
FYI. he also didn’t entertain the idea of bringing me over for a meal with his female friend despite me asking.
Am I being paranoid?