Ghosted…or not? Should I wait?
So my crush recently went on a 3 years overseas uni to California for further studies. Since before the trip he has been uncontactable. And has not been replying to my texts. I was wondering if I should just move on or wait since it’s a pretty long time and while I do have time to wait, it’s the silence that is slowly killing me inside. Thoughts?
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Here are what netizens think:
- Wait for what? You yourself also know gone liao right. Don’t kum gong k? It is a horrible feeling to wait on someone.
- our crush for him has crushed your brains
- If he’s uncontactable to YOU, that means he’s not into you. Move on.
- If you are someone he treasure ,you don’t even need to text him and then wait, A guy who show interest in you will never leave you out of sight,trust your intuition, slowly but surely you can move forward without having to wait..let others come into your life and if he return oneday then it is your call.
- If a man really likes you, he will be too scared that during this period, you will date another person. He will just keep appearing in texts, emails, comments in social media, just make sure you know he is still around.
- Probably prowling for an American girl to date. Also there are plenty of international students too to fulfill his Korean Brazilian or arabian fantasies.
He truly has ghosted you. Human beings love to BS ourselves and being in denial rather than face the painful truth. Move on.
- Its just a crush feeling on your part.nothing concrete. He didnt declare anything else to you or professed his feelings. Move on rather than being getting your heart crushed later ..