A guy asks is it normal to for his girlfriend to sleep at her guy best friend’s house after a night out drinking.
Here is the story:
“Is it normal for your girl/boyfriend to sleep in her/his best friend’s house who happens to be a boy/girl?
So my girlfriend went back to Taiwan a month ago and she’s gonna come back in April. She has a lot of male friends, some of whom she has known for quite a bit of time. What she does is that she’d go out for a drink with them sometimes and sleep at her best friend’s house who allegedly has another vacant room.
Maybe I’m being too conservative and controlling, but I really don’t like her continuing to do this. She thinks I’m overreacting, and she says she’s disappointed that I doubt her and her best friends. I asked what she’d have felt like if I had done the same thing with a female friend, and she said she honestly wouldn’t care because she thinks it’s okay.
Am I an insufferable jerk? Am I being overly sensitive and protective…? Would you tolerate such behaviors..?”
Editor’s note: Your concerns are valid, that’s a red flag.