Girl (18F) told me (18M) she wants to have my kids after a few hours of messaging.
For context, this girl starting messaging me and flirting with me, and we agreed to go on a date this Saturday. But after a few hours of inconsistent and far apart messaging, she said that she wanted to have my kids?
She has said it twice and both times seemed completely sincere. This girl barely knows me and im kind if put off by it.
Ive never been in a relationship before, but this doesnt seem normal. Id feel really bad rejecting her, but Im also not sure if i want to go forward with the relationship because i dont really feel a connection.
Im incredibly anxious and stressed and its causing me to lose sleep. Should I move forward and go on the date to see what shes like, or should i just cut it off early?
- As a mid-20s woman, here is my advice: this is not a girl to get involved further with. Saying things like this so early and young is a massive, huge red flag. She’s either love-bombing you or is getting inappropriately attached, which is a sign of poor mental health/self-image.
- Wait she wants to have kids before you’e even been on the first date?
Yeah that is VERY weird. I’d run
She sounds like the kind of girl who might sabotage the birth control or something to “baby trap” you.
- Cut it off, do not under any circumstances give this girl a chance to baby trap you. She may even already be pregnant and looking for a prospective baby daddy/ATM. Best case scenario she is simply unhinged.
- Block. Delete. GHOST. This chick is CRAZY. And you know what they say about ‘sleeping with crazy” man, it never ends well. Run.