GUY CRIED LIKE BABY AFTER HE PEW PEW IN BED WITH GIRL BECAUSE IT WAS TOUCHING

My (24F) FWB (23M) cried after he came, did i mess up?

We have had intercourse a few times before, this did not happen before. I was giving him head and saw tears in his eyes so i stopped.

I asked him if he was ok, he told me he was and that i should just continue. I switched to cow girl to slow things down though.

Still he had tears in his eyes and i asked if he had pain or something or if something was up and that maybe we should stop. He said not at all and that i should please continue.

After he came he broke down crying and i got super worried thinking i messed up something or hurt him so i kept asking him why he was crying and if i did something wrong, he said no but he couldn’t answer me why though as he didn’t know himself.

I asked him if those were ‘happy or sad tears’ to which he replied ‘probably both’. Did anyone ever experience something similar? Got me worried as hell?

Netizens’ comments

1. Rush of happy chemicals and endorphins and he probably feels very safe with you. Good job. You did nothing wrong.
2. He caught feels. Plus, a lot of people don’t realize the impact that intimacy can bring. Poor man probably went through a lot and you made him realize how much he has been without
3. While it could be really anything at all I had a moment like this with a friend years ago I did stuff with where he broke down crying. For him specifically we talked it out and came to terms with it being some kind of intimacy starvation and personal life stuff kind of releasing all at once.
4. When I’ve come across this it is due to past trauma in the other person’s life. You can be as caring and loving as can be and it won’t matter because they go away into a different head space. They feel guilty for not being able to enjoy what should be a natural connection and will ask you to continue, but the truth is, they are just not there with you and continuing won’t help. If possible, stop and talk, conveying that it’s more important that they’re okay than that you have fun. If they can’t talk, just be there for him until they can.