I’m a 32M. Having a 50F as a girlfriend is very stressful.
She has this habit of drinking and getting drunk, after which she start talking nonsense about breaking up. She have a son almost my age. And always wanna break up because i do not have time for her.
I’ve been trying to make plans for both of us. And yet, she doesn’t seems to appreciate. I have my family commitments, she has hers too.
Although she doesn’t really have to bother much about her family, that doesn’t mean i can don’t bother about mine.
I do not why she always put break up as a option. Sometimes i really wonder is she even mature enough to think about our r/s?
Most of the time our meet up will only have 1 ending. Which is the happy ending. Either in car or hotel. But sometimes all i wanted is just someone whom i can share my thoughts with.
Tell me what should i do?
Break off or continue?
Netizens’ comments
- The next level of Friends with benefits (FWB) is Grandmother With benefits (GWB)
- Rich? Rich then carry on. Not rich but Lao chio with happy ending then ok la. Else find others. Since you only playing around.
- Bro, it’s obvious that both parties have different expectations. Don’t take the relationship too seriously and just be happy.
- You already have the answer. She’s 50 and she’s still behaving this way. Is this someone you see as a future spouse?
- Dont say until you damn noble….you are also looking for fun…She has a kid as old as you…
Are you seriously considering marrying her? If not then just break up and find someone your own age - Isn’t it super clear the red flag is there, 50 years old and single with a son close to your age. Dosent it says alot?