It’s ok if you don’t want to date a girl that’s been banged by 30 dudes
I heard about it real life. Guy finds out his gf has been with 30 plus guys, got gang banged in uni, etc.
Commentators call him shallow, insecure, women shaming. Having a preference doesn’t make you insecure…
I’m not judging anyone, people are free to do as they please. But the fact that guys get called insecure because they don’t want to be another number is nonsense.
Women can have preferences, so can men. Stop saying a guy is insecure because he doesn’t wanna be where 30 other guys have been
Netizens’ comments
- I don’t really see an issue with this as long as you apply the same restrictions on promiscuity to yourself.
- I see an issue w it either way. If one thinks it’s ok for men to bang several girls but not for girls to do the same, they’re and hypocrites.
But if they think neither is ok then they’re judgmental a-holes. I know judging is part of living in a society and we do need it in order for it to function properly but there are certain behaviors that are simply no one’s business and this is one of them. Especially since it’s literally natural to wanna get intimate with someone else.
- It’s a bit subjective really, it’s high for some and not for others depending on their own perspective.
The main issue is only that it might indicate to some people that you have a different perspective or value for it than they do, so it might put some people off or others may not care at all, again, it’s about different attitudes and perspectives. - Depends on who you ask. Some girls will be turned off and some girls won’t. You just gotta find the ones that don’t care.
- I’m 29F, and as long as my boyfriend is STD free and capable of being 100% faithful to me, I couldnt care less about the life he had before he met me.
- Flip the table, would you consider it high from whoever you slept with if they told you that was their number?