To keep the story short, recently i drank with my girl best friend at my place and we were watching shows together. One thing led to another and we ended up making out and sleeping together while drunk
We have been friends for 6 years and she’s one of my closest friends. I would be lying if i said i hadn’t thought of wanting to “get it on” with her.
However, i only treat her as a very close friend and do not have any romantic feelings for her.
I feel that what we did that day was wrong and i feel now she is distancing herself from me.
I wanted to go and talk to her about this issue but she just keeps pushing me away and saying she’s busy. At this rate, i feel that our friendship is going to end and i will lose someone i treasure a lot.
I really need some advice now. Thank you
- just back off. She’s probably confused and what the hell happened and doesn’t want to deal with you right now. The more you try to talk to her, the worse you’re making the situation. So… just back off.
- Give her some time to wrap her head about what happened and to consolidate her feelings. There’s no time limit anyone can give you but you just have to read the situation. The more you try to contact her, the further she’ll drift away. Go take some time to yourself and try to forget about it. When she’s ready to talk, she will