A guy shared how he has been dating his girlfriend for more than 3 years and they haven’t slept together yet.
Here is the story:
I’m going to keep this short and simple.
I have been dating this girl for 3+ years now (F 21) and me (M 23). I would also like to add that i am a personal trainer. And that girls tend to think I’m very attractive.
When we first started dating, we had a few kisses and make-out sessions. I’ve been with a couple of other girls before but this girl is so different when it comes to being intimate, she doesn’t appear to want to do it.
3 years in, we’re still together but we still haven’t slept together yet. I have complained and we have fought about it millions of times.
She will tell me she loves me more than anything and goes on these crying screaming rants about how much she loves me and how much I mean to her when I accuse her of not wanting to be with me anymore because of the lack of physical intimacy.
She also recently started working at a hospital where there are some men there. Apparently, she added some on Instagram and has been invited out to bars and get-togethers with these guys, also including some women coworkers.
This makes me much more jealous because since I’m not getting any from her, I overthink and tell myself she’s cheating on me. She and I have NEVER BEEN CHEATERS. she has a strong moral path and I know her enough to know she wouldn’t cheat.
But still, I can’t stop thinking about the thought that she doesn’t feel into me anymore and may be flirting with someone else/cheating.
She blames the less intimacy in our relationship because of her work, stress, etc. but a guy is a guy, and I can’t settle on not being intimate with anyone for the rest of my life.
I love her, I am in love with her, but I cant just touch myself 3 times a day to the thought of her and be satisfied.
What do i do? Has anyone been in a situation like this?