GUY NOT HAPPY WITH THE WAY HIS NEW GF MOAN IN BED, KPKB SAY SOUND LIKE SHE’S WHINING

I can’t stand how my new girlfriend moans when we get intimate in bed.

We’ve been hooking up for about a week now. Everything is great in terms of our bedroom activities, she’s really hot and we have fun so far.

But the problem is the way she moans. It’s hard to describe it’s almost sounds whiny. Or maybe she faking the moans.

I don’t want to bring it up with her since it would probably be really embarrassing. But I’m not sure how to address it.

I did try to put my hand on her mouth but she didn’t like that. Maybe I’ll get use to it? Any suggestions would be appreciated. Also I’m 22 and she’s 21.

Netizens’ comments

1. The only safe way to broach this sort of thing is to humbly ask: Do I really make you moan like that, or are you flattering me?
   She’s either going to say:
   A) She’s trying to put on a show for you / encourage you / etc.
   or
   B) She’s moaning because it feels good to her.
   If A. you can tell her sometimes you can tell and she doesn’t have to do that because you’d rather just hear whatever comes naturally to her.
   If B. then she’s doing it for herself mate and you might just be incompatible in bed.
2. Put yourself in her shoes. How would you want her to break the news to you? It’s tough, right?I think there’s a line between “can tolerate out of consideration” and “libido killer.” If it’s the latter, then you gotta bring it up. But there’s no way to guarantee she’s not going to take it badly.
3. I think just wear headphones when you’re doing it.
   • Headphones… did your mother drop you on your f-ing head when you were born?