all those reasonably attractive female commenters that say “oh im not materialistic” , “oh i dont mind going on dutch” , “character matters most”, “i dont need a condo” etc
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Trust me they wont go out or marry a guy that is earning less than 4k.
This is because Even when they say want to stay in hdb, they want a big enough hdb and good location enough hdb which once again cost >600k . In addition, They still expect to be wined and dined, and with yearly regional trips and occasional staycations and gifts/flowers etc.
However you still have play the game. The reason is while you earn 4k, you also need their 4k
Ultimately society is quite realistic. While money cannot do everything, but without money you cant do anything.
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Here are what netizens think:
- Whether u earn 1k , 2k , 3k, 4K, be upfront lor, Tell them whether you have family commitments, need to support your parents ?? Any loan?? What you can provide ? How can you provide? Honestly I have guys who always tell me they Bo liew too. Then we go out , go Dutch lor , each pay our own , don’t be so bad to tok them too lah …. Don’t tok people’s hard earned $$$$
- It’s just like a rich guy will most probably prefer to date a reasonably pretty and attractive girl right? Then can i say just because he wants to date a pretty girl, he is shallow? No. No, bec human beings are attracted to beautiful things and that is understandable. I think compatibility is not just a singular layer, it is physical, intellectual, spiritual, financial and lifestyle. Like if I’m a guy and I’m not there, I wouldn’t even dream about dating Kim lim. Or if I’m affluent but im an introvert and I don’t enjoy socialising, then I probably do not fit her bill too. We need to assess each other’s compatibility so we can enjoy longevity and fruitfulness with our partners!
- But why want gf if money already struggling? Geylang settle la.. cheaper also. take money buy single scheme in geylang, be geylang VIP, life settle Liao.. good food, good life, got shelter.. settle already bruh..