Is it wrong for me to dress so well as a straight guy? I love fashion and I work in the industry so compared to most men in Singapore, my fashion sensitivity is off the roof.
A lot of my guy friends come to me for advice on what to wear and even the girls will hit me up for ideas. Not that I want to haolian but I don’t just dress well, I’m not a bad looker too.
My face is on par with a lot of MediaCorp celebrities and I work out so I also got six pecs. I thought that what I have is already the whole package for boyfriend material already but somehow, I still can’t find a girlfriend.
Whenever I try to hint a girl that I’m interested in her, they’re always caught by surprise as they usually assume I’m gay.
When I reassure them that I’m not, they will laugh and say that I must be a play boy then. I really don’t understand leh.
Is this what they mean by fan jian? Got this good boy of their dreams here they don’t want to take, they want to get their hearts broken by some c grade d-bag. I really don’t get it.
Netizens’ comments
- You know, people who claim that they are good looking, usually are the ones who are actually not good looking at all, but kudos to you for having the enormous self confidence, all the best to you OP and good luck.
- From the way you describe yourself shamelessly, I think it is pretty evident why you are still single and no females want you. Maybe humble yourself a little bit more and people will find you attractive, or you are going to die alone still holding a mirror to your own face.