How do I cope as a below average guy(21M)? Honestly I don’t have money, height (1.67) or looks.
I’m currently an undergraduate at a local Uni embarking on Y3 in a stem course. All around me are peers who are taller, richer, better looking many of whom have current and or past relationships.
I have a small circle of friends which is mainly from this study group which we have had since our first year.
I tried dating girls but I get like 1-2 matches a months and I swipe ALOT. It’s super sad cause a lot of these people will just leave you on read and expect you to carry the convo .
I also asked out some of the girls who I studied with and hung out with but they all friendzoned me.
I’m 21 and I never had a gf ): still virgin. I’m legit so down bad I’ve been thinking about dating guys. Can anyone here give some advice pleaseeee
- You need to be comfortable in your own skin first and like yourself. That will translate to self confidence and attractiveness to women. Women don’t just look for handsome, tall or rich guys, they want someone confident with a sense of humour and someone with good character. If you are desperate for a gf, it will obvious to them and it will be a turnoff.
- To be honest, If I were you, I would rather focus on myself and loving yourself. With that, you could possible build some self confidence and eventually, you’ll match with someone someday. Im 28, dated a few girls before and am just enjoying my life as a single while all my friends are either married or getting married.
- Anyway, a good portion of the population are below average so it’s not the end of the world. Money can be earned, looks can be improved. But if you look around there are many ugly or poor people in happy relationships. So maybe you’re looking at the wrong things. And honestly, nothing screams creepy more than a desperate guy.