I(M20) last long in bed but my girl(F20) doesn’t like that?
I’ve been absolutely blessed with the ability to last essentially however long I want in bed. I am not sure how I can do this but I just can.
Of course, there are times when I finish pretty quickly, but most occasions I can last over an hour.
The other night, I (M20) was hooking up with a girl (F20) I’ve been seeing. After around an hour, and after she had finished, she stopped and asked me why I hadn’t finished yet.
I didn’t really know what to say other than that I can just last long in bed. I am wildly attracted to this girl. Me not finishing has nothing to do with her or her performance, and I told her that.
I asked her, “would you prefer I finish after like two minutes?”. She responded like every girl does and said that she’d take that as a compliment.
She thinks it had something to do with her performance and I don’t want her to think that. She is easily the best partner in bed I’ve ever had and I can’t see how it could get any better.
Regardless of how long I last I always enjoy it. But am I lasting too long and is that something girls don’t like?
I am aware that this is actually not a bad problem to have, but I am curious what advice you can give me.
Netizens’ comments
- 5-10 minutes is enough for me. My husband is amazing at foreplay so I’m always more than satisfied before the PIV begins. An hour is far too long. I would imagine she would have dried up and got friction burns during that time.
- An hour straight is just way too long for most people. It can start to be uncomfortable and painful at that point
- Yeah, I mean no one really wants the actual act to last an hour. Maybe if there were a lot of breaks and stuff but if a guy doesn’t come within 10 to 15 minutes it’s kind of an insult.
- You seem surprised your girl doesn’t like an hour of piv. Looks like you have a misguided notion that the longer the better for her. Well for most girls piv for too long can cause their natural lube to dry up and it can get painful. If not they are going to feel sore. So while you’re thinking you’re a god in bed, she’s suffering. Well, you learn new things everyday.