A guy shared a story that he does not know how to tell his girlfriend that he minds that she has a child from her past relationship.
He has been together with her coming to a year when she told him the truth that she has been pregnant and gave birth before.
Here is the story
“I’m feeling very confused now.
The short story is, I have been together with my girlfriend for close to a year now and we have been very happy in our relationship with one another.
She is 30F, while I am 27M.
I very much already see a future together with her and have made plans to propose to her in 1-2 years time as I feel that she is the one and completes me.
One day while we were having dinner, she broke the news to me that she actually has a child from a shotgun with her ex-boyfriend before when she was 27.
The guy forced her to abort the kid away as she was kind of his mistress and he did not want his wife to know for fear that she will divorce him and fight for his assests.
He then MIA-ed from her after telling her to abort the baby.
Still, my girlfriend decided to give birth to the child as to her ‘a life is still a life’.
The child is now 3 years old and her parents has been helping her to take care of the child ever since he is old enough not to be nursed by her anymore.
She used to tell people about it before they got serious but they just kept leaving her after knowing the truth so she decided not to tell me until we were making plans for the future.
I told her that I was okay with it but deep down inside my heart, I am really not happy about it.
Why would I want to ‘buy one get one free’ and raise another kid for someone who just fired into my girlfriend and ran away?
I am at a loss of how to tell her that I mind.
I really love her but this is too much for me.”
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