A guy shared a story of how he has already broke up with his ex-girlfriend and was already quite successful in forgetting her when he screwed up and texted her.
It was almost a month since he texted her and he did so after some self reflection, throwing his pride aside and approaching her to admit his wrongdoings.
Here is the story
“My ex and I have broken up for quite a period of time and I have been trying to forget her ever since we ended.
In the past, even though I said that I will not bother again, I have always ended up trying to contact her whenever I feel sad or lonely.
The previous time I tried contacting her was almost a month ago and she had made it quite clear that it was completely over between the both of us and nothing I do can change things.
So I decided that maybe it is time for me to move on and try not to bother her anymore
I have been doing great with not bothering my ex for the past month. I don’t know what triggered it exactly but I logged into accounts of her I did not touch in a long time.
It got me thinking about how I made her mad and let her down and it ultimately forced more honest self reflection by myself.
Realising I was the one who jeopardised our relationship I messaged her about 8 times this morning.
At the expense of my remaining dignity, I tried my best to salvage things between us as I really love her but she did not want to let me into her life again.
This really hurt me especially after I felt that I had always gave in to her but she could not do the same for me or understand from my point of view.
Even though I hope she will come back, I guess it is time for me to move on with my life and embrace new beginnings in the new year.”
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