My coworker has been giving me signs, should I just hook up with her? I’m a 21m, she’s a 24F. Been working here for 2 months and i always catch her staring.
About a week ago we were both alone at work and she started telling me how she just hooked up with some other guy here but that they don’t talk anymore.(totally out of the blue)
She also said that she’s home alone until 1pm everyday. She’s always making excuses to come talk to me.
Since she hooked up with someone else I’m hoping to keep it casual, which I think she’d be down for. How should I go about asking her, if it’s even a good idea at all? What would you do?
I don’t see myself dating her, when we talk at work it’s cool but nothing to make me say I’m attracted to her in that way.
More attracted to her in a hooking up type of way. I will make that clear from the start before anything. And we’d both have to agree that it’s just FWB nothing more, if not I’m not in.
Netizens’ comments
- We can all tell you to never f a coworker but you have to do it it to truly understand why. You’re young, go have your fun.
- Is this a corporate job or retail/service role? If the former you better leave her alone
- Bad idea if you value your job/workplace sanity. Just flirt and date her if you ever change jobs. I met my wife at work, but we dated after I left for another job
- I’m gonna tell you not to sleep with a coworker but based on your comments you already made up your mind.
- In my single days I never would dare to fish off a company pier… I get you’re younger which matters little but if she’s above you it could affect her more too.
- been there, done that in the restaurant field! ended up dating him for 3 years and everyone is right… do not s-t where you eat.